Public events ...think again

i just want to discuss the many kinds of people that i came across, the various evidents show the nature of the people.
Yesterday only there was Shivjayanti and every where there is mood of celebration.
The reason is obvious that there is Birthday of the Great Maharashtrian emperor, upto this point it is ok but in city Ambarnath there is mood of some extra celebration.
The station area is surrounded by flags and all decorations, there is a place reserved for the some events outside the road.
I reach late in the night and saw some heavy loudspeakers with songs are played in the public area, it was difficult to bear the sound. If people want to celebrate the day then it is ok but do some useful things na. Help some organizations, or poor people those need help. What they people goin to achieve with these loud sound and unnecessary things. let it be ..........
Another event i wnt to mention is daily local train experince
i travel daily by 7.37 train from ABR, there is general tendency of the UNR people to come back seated while train came down from UNR, upto some extent it is ok coz every one wnt a seat while travelling so long, but bcoz of the limited seats everyone dont get chance to sit. It is understood and in the half way the people let others sit and they stand up the other half.
This continues in all the trains generally, but there are some peoples that dont think of others and remain seated for the entire journey. This should not happen dont know the reason why people used to do this ............
A strange experience about one frnd (say frnd "x" coz she dont want her name to display on net) in couple of weeks back i want to mention here.......
We meet on orkut for the first time, though we were in same school but we havent talked ever.
while surfing i just got her profile and sent scrap for friendship, she accepted it and since then we used to chat daily.
once while chatting the topic discussed was lets meet someday and we meet
I have planned what topics to discuss and where to go but the actual things happened was totally unexpected and we just keep standing by roadside and just discuss unnecessary things, they are necessary for priliminary information but ok for that day.
After that we used to meet every day for atleast half an hour and chat by side of the road.
Meanwhile "x" told me that she told Frnd Y(our frnd) abt our visit (Y was also with us in the school)
Y asked her to think for a while when talking to me. I think she was right.
From that day there is sudden change in"X" and the meetings were less frequent, the reason told to me that she getting embarrased while talking to me by roadside, which is true to me also and the passing people looking around at us in strange manner.
I got the reason and said nothing coz she is right.
But i cant get the things and wnt someone to discuss the things that i experience and dont get.
Past days i discussed many things with "X" and got a good relief, though the solutions she suggested was not 100% acceptable.
I suggested many ways to meet so that others who know us dont see us while chatting on road
I told her that may we can meet at earlier stations and chat so that itwill be fine for both of us
She suggested that we can meet at VT which in opposite direction to my way back to home so i refused, then i suggested that we can meet at any station on the way back to home so that it will be easier for both of us
She refused to accept, the reason she gave was not at all acceptable according to my point of view.
Let it be ........ we now only chat in gmail and if necessary meet for 5-10 mins
I m feeling that there should be someone to whom i can talk discuss my problems, a good frnd ..
.........
a true frnd who is interested in me .. can understand me ......
but havent got any one
on chat i have many frnds and i discuss many things with them just beside chat ..
but i wnt a true frnd that i havent got till now....................

call back episodes huhhhhhhhh not again

आज काल TV set (IDIOT BOX) वर बघाव तिकडे वेगवेगळ्या competitions सुरु असतात, त्यात एक नविन फंडा बघायला मिळतो आहे call back episodes.........
मला personally विचाराल तर हे आजिबात पटत नाही, कस ते सांगतो.
म्हणजे बघा पहिले सगळ्यांना बोलवायच priliminary round घ्यायची, त्यातले काही हिरे गाळायचे आणि मग अस करत करत final पर्यंत पोचायच.. ईथपर्यंत ठीक आहे मग call back ची गरज आहे का ? जर तुम्ही marks च्या आधारावर कोण पुढे जाणार हे decide करता मग who got less marks should sent outside. why give second chance .
आणि जर का तुम्हाला खरच वाटत की ते खरच गुणवान आहेत तर मग त्यांना बाहेर का पाठवता You should promote them to next round.
स्पर्धेचे नियम तेवढे flexible हवेत कि तुम्ही decide करु शकाल कि कोण final round पर्यंत जाणार ते

Is there need of reservation to OBCs

In past months there was an issue regarding the OBCs reservation in the higher institutions like IIMs and IITs.
The story behind this was a far long, before many years when there was a group of certain people dominating certain class of people in the society. All the low quality level work were done by these.
The one man Dr Babasaheb Ambedkar came out with a thought to finish this and to help the community. He had done some good things to help the community, the story so far exists some 50 yrs ago when India became independent and every citizen of India awarded equal rights by the republic of India.
If it is there then how come the issue came for the reservation, the republic of India clearly states that each Indian citizen have equal rights compare to the others in the society and the racisism is the major social crime.
Though this is stated, but very few people in the society were aware about it. There is now also some group of persons who want to have their rights just for their sake and not else. so they are trying this reservations weapons to get their people in the higher position without capability.
Here I want to mention the personal experience of mine for the post graduation admission for chemistry, at the time there was also some reservation quota for the SCs STs and NTs. The students who just got just above 45 % had an easy admission to the top most branch in post graduation at one of the major colleges and the students like me, from open quota dont even get a lowest branch at the lowest grade college for approx 66% the list closed at around 66.8 %. This was the terrible experience in my life.
Now back to the point of reservation, the students who dont have capability to learn further just got admission on the reservation quota and just cant complete the studies, many of them leaves in the middle of course, a wastage of few seats that can be helpful for students who really want to study but dont get admission through open quota.
The teaching in the institutions is same for all the class of students, there is not separate batch for the SCs and STs, then where this reservation funda came from. The government takes CET for the courses, that is to test the capability of students, or to check whether he is really a suitable candidate to have that course. Then it should be treated equally for all the students. The ones who will score more will get the admission. This is as straight forward as it is but....
All the things will not happen as we see that it should happen.........
In the society itself, in the daily life experience we dont treat the SCs and STs as a separate part of our life, in the society in the institutions they were treated equally....... so I dont think there is a need to have a separate reservation for some specific community..........